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"This document discusses a complex relationship issue involving infidelity and disputes over property ownership between a couple. The author expresses feelings of betrayal and frustration regarding the financial investments made in their shared home.

• Infidelity and Its Consequences: The author acknowledges the infidelity in the relationship and emphasizes the need for both parties to admit the reality of their situation while highlighting the emotional and financial implications that come with it. 1

• Property Dispute: The author insists on a fair division of property, stressing that they should not be left homeless due to the other's actions and outlining the significant financial contributions made towards their home. "

Single/Married women

Solution to the woman who bleeds on the inside.

My dear, you have come a long way, and things in life change

. Things are not what you expected them to be. But as long as there's life, there is hope. YOU have come a long way, and if anyone had told you your life would end this way, what would you have said? Things my friend sometimes gets complicated. Relationship varies from individual. He, as well as I,  knew where we were coming from. But we have to admit to ourselves infidelity as the forces of interference enter in and tear us apart. And this time apart is truly not what we expected. You are determined to continue living an adulterous life. Now you need to understand the implication. Admission is necessary because we have to admit we can no longer live like this. What we need to bear in mind where we are both coming from, with each other. Realistically, we both do not have the money to buy out each other so as to have living accommodations. You know I have invested in this home way beyond what you could afford with what you have at the time we came together. I need you to think, if things were on the reverse, what would you desire with regards to living conditions? I know I have no intention of leaving you high and dry, and it puzzled me to see and know you want me on the street after all I have invested in you and me. Ok, you have been unfaithful and are bent on wanting a divorce to go ahead. I am not going to stand in your way, but understand this also: I am not going to be left homeless due to your unfaithfulness. No one except you caused you to do what you did; you simply fulfilled the lust and desires of your heart. I have also invested in building our home, and you know well my financial contribution outweighs yours.

 And the truth be stated, you do not deserve the matrimonial home to yourself. The furnishings, except for your bed, have been purchased with my finances. Let be where your heart desires to leave me high and dry. Has your heart become that cold, or have you been hiding the true you in the shadows? This spirit of mine squirmed on the inside, seeing how calculated you are, lying and manipulating from all angles. That part of what happens when love grows cold, but by and through and for the grace of God, I need peace of mind in my life, too, at this stage. I came in a few days ago, and you asked why I am back, and the treats are real. You are threatening to kill me. So, hear me out, you want to take everything I worked so hard for just for you and your sweetheart. Not while I am breathing. Now you can do what you want to do with your life. Take one of the houses, and  I will take the other, even though I will be losing much more than you do. Knowing all my hard-earned labor in the cold for 20+ years is tied up in the house. We have invested, looking forward to retiring in comfort and peace. Now you have a decision to make. We can split the property fairly, or we can go through the courts. The choice is yours, but  I guarantee you that after the dust is settled, I will not walk away without a fight.

After investing everything I had in the house to have a comfortable place to retire, I am not going to give it all to you, the man who took me from my home and now wants me to become homeless a second time. And if your conscience is not dead, you know what I am saying is true. One question for you, if I were the unfaithful to you, would you have liked for me to turn you out EMPTY-HANDED with only the clothes on your back? Knowingly that when I met you had one room, a kitchen, and a little bathroom.  It seems like you want to make your description more concise. Could you please provide more details or share the specific text you would like to shorten? I'll be happy to help! 😊as the flesh of another blinded you so badly. It seems like you want to make your description more concise. Could you please provide more details or share the specific text you would like to shorten? I'll be happy to help! 😊